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How to stop spoiling my kids

Warning--First World Problems Post (FWPP)

With Christmas just now over, I look at all the damage I've done gifts I've given, and think I've done too much.

How do I stop myself? Is it really too much? I have a hard time answering these questions.

Split families also don't help this scenario either.  I mean does anyone give just 1 gift anymore?

I mean, how did I even get here?  I have 2 boys, both born around the same time of year so what could they possibly need, especially my youngest?  Yet I manage to get sucked into Target Consumerism and shop shop shop.  Perhaps that is part of the problem too, all of the celebrations are in the same part of the year.

I partially blame the blogosphere and all it's deals being thrown at my face.  I mean sure, I suppose I could ignore my reader and the deals that pop up.

Anyways, like other areas of my life I need to simplify and be disciplined here, especially if #3 is on the way.  I think the hardest challenge is me passing up learning gifts like puzzles, books, games.  I can pass up actual toys relatively easily.  I don't think the solution is to just keep running to Ikea to get new storage options, but rather to make less purchases.

Is this an issue you face?  Do you have any suggestions?  I'd love to hear your thoughts and advice.

Some of the spoils from the holidays and birthdays.


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